Coupleship
Activity Cards for Reestablishing Connection after Sexual Betrayal
52 activities to aid you and your partner in reestablishing connection, nourishing your spirits, and igniting your intimacy healing!
Cost: $26 (10% off when you pre-order now!)
Rebuild trust and rekindle intimacy with Coupleship activity cards, thoughtfully designed to help couples recovering from betrayal. These cards provide safe, nurturing activities that support deeper connection, encourage open communication, and create a couple bubble—a shared space of trust and emotional safety. Even after infidelity, a joyful and fulfilling relationship is possible, and these cards are a tool to guide you on that path.
Inspired by our own journey of healing from sex and porn addiction, Noah and I created the Coupleship cards to offer couples practical ways to reconnect. After experiencing the impact of betrayal wounds and addiction, we realized the need for new, safe activities that would rebuild intimacy without triggering past traumas or acting out behaviors. Each activity fosters patience, mutual understanding, and emotional closeness, allowing both partners to thrive together in their recovery.
Use the cards weekly, following levels that match your stage of healing, and discover new ways to bond, communicate, grow, and have fun! The Coupleship activity cards are a vital resource for any couple looking to rebuild trust and reignite their relationship.
Top 5 Coupleship Building Skills:
- Attunement: Attunement in a relationship involves recognizing and responding to a partner’s emotional needs, fostering deeper emotional connection and helping the relationship thrive.
- Body/mind connection: The interrelationship between physical sensations and mental processes, where the state of the body can influence thoughts and emotions, and vice versa.
- Collaboration: Working together with your partner toward a common goal, leveraging each person’s strengths and ideas.
- Freudenfreude: A term coined by social scientists to describe the joy, pleasure, or satisfaction derived from witnessing someone else’s success or good fortune, even if it doesn’t directly affect you.
- Vulnerability: The willingness to open oneself up to emotional risk, sharing one’s true feelings, thoughts, and fears.
Other Suggested Reading:
- I Am Reclaiming Me: A Betrayed Partner’s Daily Practice Journal for Women, Lorna Nakell
- Help. Them. Heal: Teaching You Both How to Heal Your Relationship After Sexual Betrayal, Carol Juergensen Sheets
- Moving Beyond Betrayal: The 5-Step Boundary Solution for Partners of Sex Addicts, Vicki Tidwell Palmer
- The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most has Hurt You the Worst, Michelle Mays LPC CSAT-S
- Pornland, by Gail Dines
- The Body Keeps the Score, Bessel A. van der Kolk
- Atlas of the Heart, Brene Brown
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